I have loathed winter for most of my adult life: drab, grey skies, scantily dressed and naked trees, frigid air, too much clothing. I used to dread the approach of it. I love spring and summer, and while I love many things about fall, I had put a negative label on that gorgeous season; the forerunner of winter. The following is how I had seen autumn’s approaching exit: Soon to be barren trees struggle to hold on to the last of the majestic colored leaves that adorn them, a strong wind blows out from mother nature’s pursed lips chanting, “winter is coming, winter is coming,” some lone survivors lose their grasp and swirl to the ground as I stand mourning the beautiful autumn canvas disappearing before my eyes. Cold, damp darkness settles in with the early setting of the sun. Winter is coming.Upon confessing my dread of winter and my longing for spring feelings to a dear friend, he spoke his words of wisdom. “Don’t wish your life away. You should embrace every day. Life is short”; such sage advice, especially now that I am approaching the cusp of my senior years.
I want to savor every day. My friend’s advice changed the way I was thinking. It caused me to embrace that much disliked season. I focused on each day’s beauty and opportunities to still be doing what I loved. Last winter and this winter felt different from other winters. Why? Because I lived it with a different attitude, and guess what? It was enjoyable!
I am still looking forward to spring. It will be here soon. But I won’t wish this time away. Spring will get here in its time. Today is here, and I shall live it and embrace the beauty that it holds. Each day is a gift to live and love. Before long, excitement will stir within us upon seeing the first crocus’ poking their heads out, signaling that spring is near, and when it comes, it will be like reuniting with an old friend, and my heart will swell with joy. That is what the entrance will be like with each individual season, and I am excited about them all!